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The Real You with Very Important Purpose

I enjoy creating this informative space.

I am not aligned with any brand marketing but rather with actions and results grounded in the purest integrity.

This is more than a "business"; it is my art form, my passion—the quantum untangling, dancing freely with the unseen but felt. It is about learning to embrace the ups and downs and truly falling in love with living life.

I work with people who have chosen change and want to break free from whatever is holding them back.

I will not waste time or money convincing people to process things.

The decision for change must be personally declared.

This is about You being In Control, and it Starts Here.

Some friends and colleagues are coming together to contribute to newly developing Sustack world including my Comfortably Real a mix of personal perspective and tools or info that I have find useful.

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Hidden beneath our ‘Masks,’ a tangled web of feelings waits to be noticed

“I am tired of living this life.”
“I am broken.”
“I am not good enough.”
“I am lost.”
“I am lonely.”
“Who am I?”
“No one notices me, beneath the masks I know I wear.”

We’ve all had moments when something just doesn’t feel right—or just “meh”—a heaviness we can’t quite shake.

So, we follow the norm: go to a shrink or some equivalent, get medicated, seek a magic potion, or try affirmations. Maybe the feeling quiets for a while… but it’s still there. Heavy. Lingering.

And the cycle continues—month after month—searching for a label to “treat” us.

How do we break free?

Start by understanding some facts:

There is no scientific baseline for what a “balanced brain” looks like. The idea of a singular chemical imbalance as the root of mental distress has never been proven. While factors like nutrition, environment, and lifestyle can influence mental well-being, the story is more complex than a single chemical formula.
Societies have long relied on sedation—legal and, at times, illegal—to manage distress on a massive scale. This isn’t about blame; it’s about awareness of how systems shape our experience.

Knowing this, we can start to reclaim clarity, presence, and agency over our internal world—beyond labels, prescriptions, or external fixes.

Picture of Protestor Falls NSW by Danielle Leigh

Flowing With Nature, Pure Connection

We are energetic and emotional beings. Our thoughts, feelings, and attention move like waves, shaping how we experience life. When energy or focus feels stuck, it’s often tied to old patterns, memories, or unresolved experiences—not our true essence. Energy can shift when we reconnect with the present moment and what feels alive around us.

Being is a verb. The “Self” is awareness in action. What feels blocked is often thoughts, emotions, or habitual patterns that have paused, waiting to move. Observing a tree bend in the wind or a flower open reminds us that flexibility and change are natural.

Imagination is part of this process. It’s not just daydreaming—it’s where we hold our stories, unfinished experiences, and potential. Through imagination, we can notice what’s ready to shift and explore new possibilities for thought, feeling, and action.

Awareness restores flow. Paying attention to your inner experience allows patterns to shift, habits to loosen, and space to open for clarity, balance, and calm.

Your power of choice is central. By noticing what you think, feel, and imagine, You can reclaim your energy, restore harmony, and focus on what truly supports your well-being. Awareness is your most powerful tool for transformation.

As we reconnect with this natural flow, we also begin to see how imagination shapes the stories we live by. Some of these stories reflect our authentic self; others have been influenced by culture, media, or past experiences. Recognizing this is the first step in reclaiming clarity, presence, and agency—laying the foundation for examining how imagination can be hijacked, and how we can use it to heal, grow, and live fully.

Our Natural Awareness Process

Inspired by a time when psychology meant the study of the Spirit or Being, rather than only the mind and ego, I work to reconnect individuals with the fullness of life and awareness.

Over time, attempts to dissect and categorize the mind have often led to complexity rather than clarity. Many of us end up identifying with diagnoses—whether from a white lab coat or a healer’s cape—instead of with our own direct experience.

True healing begins with feeling and remembering the brilliance of Being—being alive, vibrant, and fully present. This involves untangling what holds us back from our full potential.

Our natural awareness processes are grounded in life’s innate principles and are tools and practices that respond to Your unique needs. These techniques allow for deep, lasting change without relying on external authority, induced hypnosis, or reliving traumatic events. You remain in full control, using Your own awareness and imagery to process and release what no longer serves you.

This approach focuses on identifying and releasing energetic stagnation—the residues of trauma, unwanted feelings, and patterns. Once processed, these lose their “magnetic charge,” triggers are neutralized, and you regain the ability to respond freely with clarity and self-control.

Each practice is non-disclosure by design—you don’t need to talk about or relive traumatic events. Rooted in the natural dynamics of energy and awareness, these methods promote freedom, emotional balance, and a return to your own brilliance of Being.

Remembering the Brilliance of Being

The goal is for You to feel the way You’ve always known You should—
confident, comfortable within Yourself, free, light, and able to explore the full potential of creating the life You dream of.

Increasingly aware and trusting Yourself, You can navigate the “Game of Life” with greater honesty and clarity.

As Your awareness grows, You may begin to neutralize the stagnant emotional patterns You’ve accidentally buried and identified with.
Without the constant distraction of overwhelming emotions,
You can more clearly see, know, and act in alignment with what is best for You.

This supports You in responding to life with greater ease, alignment, and a deeper sense of wholeness.

Welcome home to the Real You—a Very Important Purpose indeed.

Imagination Hijacked: Why True Healing Starts Within

I’ve spent years studying patterns across many systems and modalities—both old and new—that consistently produce real change. My focus has been on understanding the why and the how: looking for the similarities, the underlying formulas.

My approach is about actions and results—not ideologies or theologies wrapped up in group think. In this industry, it’s easy to get caught in a trance: enchanted by words, entrained by communities, rewarded with “currency” (a.k.a. financial survival). When results appear, it’s tempting to attach to the ideology behind them, which can lead to a “true believer” state.

I see this as one of the root causes of our ongoing mental health crisis. Modern psychology, psychiatry, and psychotherapy started the trend, and from there a flood of “alternative therapies” emerged. Many of these alternatives mirror the same underlying patterns as the systems they originally opposed.

A truth many overlook:
The Placebo Effect has the most consistent, documented healing outcomes throughout history.
The Nocebo Effect—its darker twin—is just as revealing.

My studies began as self-defense.
I needed to understand the “game” I was unknowingly a part of—how awareness can be hacked, manipulated, and even brainwashed.

Now, I share what I’ve learned with integrity, honesty, and a splash of sass.

I’m fascinated by the power of imagination.
It’s where we store our stories and unfinished business.
In imagination, we create “bad actors,” avatars, and identities—versions of ourselves as victims, failures, or heroes.

How is it that a young man who has seen the horror of war can radiate joy,
while someone raised in safety struggles with self-destruction?
It comes down to how we process experience in imagination—
the story we create and inhabit.

Western societies have been deeply influenced—and in many ways brainwashed—by screens, sounds, and synthetic voices from evolving tech. This shapes our imaginations. I am not downplaying trauma. I am highlighting what amplifies trauma, and how that amplification can be used against us.

The solution is to Reclaim Your Imagination.
Be the One In Control of your inner stories.

My goal is to help you remember how to untangle what needs untangling, to finish suffering that can be finished, and to reconnect with what is real.

To leave you with a stronger trust in yourself, able to choose your future entanglements wisely, and less likely to be influenced by what does not serve you.

I don’t offer a “program,” it's more undoing the "programming".
I keep it simple: Being to Being, outside the noise.
I meet You where You are, and we go from there.

You’re not like anyone else.

This is about Your internal voice becoming louder and clearer.
Trusting Yourself.
Knowing You are capable.

Sometimes, we just need a safe place to speak from parts of ourselves that rarely get a voice.

To feel connection. I honor that—within clear boundaries.

At the start of every meeting, we clarify the outcome we’re focusing on.
We are result-driven.
I will not support addictive or dependent behaviors.
My role is to end the cycle, not reinforce it.

Connect now

Imagine Feeling Shamelessly You — Inside and Out.