Imagine feeling shamelessly you — inside and out.
No matter the storm, you drive. You decide.
Imagine feeling shamelessly you — inside and out.
No matter the storm, you drive. You decide.
No matter the storm, you drive. You decide.
No matter the storm, you drive. You decide.
I enjoy creating this space — not aligned with brands or marketing, but with actions and results grounded in integrity.
I can only guarantee my own transparency and the art I live by.
I work with people who have chosen change and want to break free from whatever is holding them back.
I do not waste time or money convincing people to process things.
The decision for change must be personally declared.
This is about You being In Control, and it Starts Here.
My Comfortably Real Substack is a mix of personal perspectives and summaries of research I have really enjoyed doing.
I have felt over saturated with information I have gathered throughout this journey, these are such a fun way of documenting my journey of learning, unloading and sorting through all the valuable lessons.
Unpacking the Anatomy of Ideologies, social engineering, cults and group think in modern day cultural trends, and the ripple effects of a overwhelmed society creating disconnect and sociopathy.

Somewhere under the masks, something real still wants to breathe, become untangled.
“I’m tired of living this life.”
“I’m broken.”
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’m lost.”
“I’m lonely.”
“Who am I?”
“No one sees me beneath the masks I know I wear.”
We’ve all had moments when something feels off — a heaviness we can’t quite name or shake.
So we follow the norm: see a professional, take the medication, recite the affirmations. Maybe the feeling fades for a while… but it lingers. Heavy. Waiting.
And the cycle continues — month after month — searching for a label to treat what might simply be our own untended awareness.
The truth is, there’s no scientific baseline for a “balanced brain.” The idea of a single chemical imbalance causing distress has never been proven. While nutrition, environment, and lifestyle all play a part in how we feel, the story is far more complex than chemistry.
For generations, societies have relied on sedation — legal and otherwise — to manage emotional pain on a massive scale. This isn’t about blame; it’s about awareness: seeing how systems shape our experience and how we’ve been taught to look outward for relief.
When we understand this, we can begin to reclaim clarity, presence, and agency over our inner world — beyond labels, prescriptions, or external fixes.

We are energetic, emotional beings. Our thoughts, feelings, and attention move like waves, shaping how we experience life. When energy feels stuck, it’s often held in old memories or unfinished stories — not in who we truly are. The moment we reconnect with what’s alive now, energy begins to move again.
Being is a verb. The “Self” is awareness in motion. What seems blocked is usually emotion or thought that has simply paused, waiting to flow. Watch a tree bend in the wind or a flower open — both remind us that movement and change are natural.
Imagination is part of this natural process. It’s more than daydreaming — it’s the space where stories, emotions, and potential live. Through imagination, we can sense what’s ready to shift and explore new possibilities for feeling, perceiving, and creating.
Awareness restores flow. The moment You bring attention to your inner world, patterns soften, habits loosen, and space opens for clarity, calm, and renewal.
Choice is your quiet power. By noticing what You think, feel, and imagine, You reclaim energy and restore harmony. Awareness isn’t something to build — it’s something to remember.
As we reconnect with this natural rhythm, we begin to see how imagination shapes the stories we live by. Some arise from our authentic self; others are echoes of culture, conditioning, or the past. Seeing this clearly is the first step in reclaiming presence and agency — and using imagination, not as escape, but as a living force for healing, growth, and creation.
As awareness returns to flow, a deeper remembering begins…

There was a time when psychology meant the study of the soul — the living Spirit within — not just the mind and its stories. That’s the space I return to in my work: helping people reconnect with the quiet intelligence of their own awareness.
Modern culture has made the simple complex, turning lived experience into labels and definitions. Many of us end up identifying with those labels — from diagnosis to doctrine — instead of the life that’s living through us.
True healing begins when we step out from behind those masks and feel life directly again: the pulse, the breath, the subtle aliveness that was never lost. This isn’t about adding something new, but reactivating what’s already there by design — the natural intelligence of awareness and the imagination it moves through.
These natural processes are simple yet profound. They reawaken the body’s innate ability to release tension, emotion, and old energetic residue — without analysis, induced hypnosis, or reliving pain. You remain fully aware, guiding your own attention and imagination — the same creative faculties that once shaped a pattern now become the tools to dissolve it.
When these frozen pockets of energy — shaped as stories, identities, or other mental constructs — begin to release, their charge fades. Reactions soften. You regain the freedom to respond instead of react — to meet life from presence, not protection.
This is the essence of pre-tending: tending to what’s ready to change, using imagination to invite your most natural state of Being back into flow.
This work is about reconnecting — remembering the innate awesomeness of Being.

The invitation is simple: to feel as you’ve always sensed You could — confident, comfortable in your own skin, free to imagine, create, and explore the full potential of your life.
As awareness deepens, self-trust strengthens. You begin to move through the “Game of Life” with a lighter touch — seeing more clearly, responding more honestly, and meeting each moment with curiosity rather than control.
In this space, the emotional patterns once buried or identified with begin to soften. Their pull fades as You reconnect with the natural intelligence already built into your design. Without the noise of old reactions, clarity returns — and with it, the quiet joy of creating from awareness instead of effort.
Living this way becomes its own form of pre-tending — tending to what’s unfolding before it takes shape. Awareness notices, imagination responds, and life reorganizes itself in harmony.
This is what it means to live in harmony with your own design — to respond rather than react, to imagine rather than replay, to experience life as movement instead of maintenance.
Welcome Home to the Real You — a Very Important Purpose indeed.