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Wakey Wakey… You’ve Been in Trance and Didn’t Realize It

Your brain drops into hypnosis daily — slipping in and out of trance with zero fanfare.

 Before we get into modern neuroscience, let’s rewind a couple centuries — back to when hypnosis first strutted onto the world stage wearing velvet gloves and a slightly theatrical mystique.


Late 1700s Europe.
Salons. Silk. Wigs. People fainting for sport and philosophy clubs arguing over everything from astronomy to the inner workings of the soul.


Enter Franz Anton Mesmer — physician, thinker, and unofficial father of the word mesmerizing.

Mesmer believed all living beings held a subtle internal force he called animal magnetism — not magnetism in the physics sense, but a kind of vital current he thought influenced well being.


He’d gather people in candlelit rooms with music playing, invite them to sit around a large tub holding iron rods, and perform sweeping gestures that looked halfway between medicine and theatre.


And people reacted.
Oh, they reacted.


Trembling.
Laughing.
Crying.
Swaying.
Collapsing into emotional overwhelm.
Walking away claiming profound shifts.


To the public eye, it looked supernatural.


Later, King Louis XVI sent in a commission of scientists — including Benjamin Franklin — to investigate. They concluded the effects came from expectation, emotion, imagination, and social atmosphere rather than Mesmer’s theory of magnetic fluid.


But here’s the thing:
whatever the cause, the human reactions were undeniably real.


Mesmer had stumbled onto something science wouldn’t have proper language for until centuries later:

the mechanics of attention, emotion, and suggestibility.


And the drama of those early demonstrations stuck.
So did the idea that hypnosis was mysterious — something done to you by someone special.


Meanwhile…


Most of us grow up never learning what our own brain is actually designed to do.
And honestly? That’s where half the trouble starts.


We treat trance like a ritual.
A spell.
A technique.


But your brain?
It’s slipping in and out of trance multiple times a day without a single velvet curtain in sight.


Your Brain: A Beautiful, Suggestible, Unsupervised Machine


Here’s the everyday truth:


If you’re overwhelmed, tired, hopeful, stressed, nostalgic, craving connection, or simply paying attention to someone you care about?


Your brain becomes wildly absorbent.


Not metaphorically — literally.
Your neural circuits shift into a mode that’s less about evaluating and more about absorbing.


When your attention narrows and your emotions light up, the brain basically says:


“Alright, this moment matters. Let’s take it in.”


And whatever lands during that focused moment?
It feels true.


Not because it is.
Because your brain temporarily relaxed the systems that check.


This isn’t a weakness.
It’s efficiency.
Your brain simply prioritizes meaning over analysis when you’re in an emotional or attentive state.


A Little Neuroscience (soft nerd)


When humans talk about “being hypnotized,” what’s actually happening is a predictable set of neural shifts:


  • The Default Mode Network quiets down.
    That’s your inner narrator — the part keeping your identity cohesive. When it softens, you stop overthinking and start absorbing.
  • Paralimbic regions light up.
    Emotion steps in and stamps things as meaningful before you consciously decide.
  • Prefrontal cortex activity dips.
    That’s your reality-checker. With it relaxed, suggestions get through unchallenged.


This is not mystical.
It’s biological.
It’s what your brain is supposed to do when you’re focusing deeply.


Trance is not an exotic brain state.
It’s just a natural shift in attention + emotion + evaluation.


And most people don’t realize they’re doing it all the time.


2025: The Imaging Study That Confirmed What Humans Already Knew


Researchers scanned people during:


  • guided imagery
  • focused attention
  • embodiment cues
  • and traditional hypnotic suggestions


And the scans told the same story every time:


The brain doesn’t care what you call it — the mechanics are the same.


Identity networks soften.
Imagination networks take charge.
Emotion amplifies significance.
Critical evaluation goes quiet.


Which means:

When you imagine something with enough focus, your brain treats it as functionally real.


This explains why:

  • a childhood comment can become a lifelong identity
  • an intense moment can feel like a revelation
  • people “wake up” after emotional processes with beliefs they didn’t walk in with
  • suggestion feels like insight
  • collapse feels like transformation


It’s not magic.
It’s human wiring.


Where It Gets Personal


Most of Our Patterns Don’t Come from Trauma — They Come from Timing


People assume manipulation requires intention.
But the truth is softer, scarier, and far more common:


Anyone you care about can influence you without trying.


Parents.
Teachers.
Friends.
Siblings.
Partners.
Coaches.
Bosses.
Mentors.


A kid in distress hears, “You’re too sensitive,”
and their identity locks onto it.


A teacher says, “Some people just aren’t academic,”
and it stamps into the belief system.


A partner says, “You always overreact,”
during an emotional moment, and the brain stores it as internal truth.


These aren’t villains.
These are humans speaking into the receptive nervous systems of other humans.


Children especially live in a near-constant trance because their evaluative circuits aren’t fully developed.
So everyday sentences become internal architecture.


A pattern.
A belief.
A self-concept.
A “fact.”


Years later, adults sit in therapy trying to unpick sentences that were never meant to shape them — but did.


Because the timing was right.
Because the state was receptive.
Because the voice belonged to someone who mattered.


And Yes, Practitioners Can Accidentally Do It Too

Gently put:


A lot of people trying to help others — facilitators, guides, healers, mentors — use language that bypasses critical thinking without realizing it.


They escalate emotion.
They use vivid imagery.
They speak with certainty.
They pace people into focus.
They guide people into collapse.
They induce intensity that looks like clarity.


Not intentionally.
Just unaware of what these states do inside a human brain.


Humans don’t need manipulation to be influenced.
They only need timing + emotion + focus.


Good intentions don’t remove the potency.


So What’s the Difference Between Trance and Awareness?


Trance is automatic.
Involuntary.
State-driven.


It happens when:

  • emotions spike
  • attention narrows
  • your body shifts
  • the moment feels important
  • you crave connection or certainty
  • you’re overwhelmed or tired


Awareness is different.
Awareness is the moment you notice what state you’re in.


Awareness says:

  • “My focus is narrowing.”
  • “My body just shifted.”
  • “This feels true — but let me check.”
  • “I’m in a receptive state; slow down.”


Awareness doesn’t fight trance.
It just illuminates it.


Trance absorbs.
Awareness observes.


Trance simplifies.
Awareness expands.


Trance makes moments absolute.
Awareness brings nuance back online.


Both are human.
But only one gives you choice.


The Real Danger Isn’t Hypnosis.


It’s Being Hypnotized Without Knowing You’re Hypnotized.


People mistake:

  • emotion for accuracy
  • intensity for insight
  • collapse for transformation
  • suggestion for self-awareness
  • relief for truth
  • repetition for identity


Not because they’re naïve —
but because they were never taught how their system works.


Once you understand your brain’s design, everything becomes clearer:


You stop swallowing passing comments like gospel.
You stop confusing overwhelm for epiphany.
You stop inheriting beliefs by accident.
You stop letting highly charged moments rewrite your sense of self.
You stop mistaking trance for awakening.
You start choosing what to internalize.


Not mystically.
Not dramatically.
Just honestly.
Just humanly.


And suddenly, your mind becomes a place you can navigate —
not a place that quietly puppeteers you from the background.




Further Reading: The Neurobiology Behind All of This


If this whole “your brain slips into trance constantly” thing has you curious, here are a few places to keep exploring.
Nothing fluffy — just genuinely solid work on attention, identity, memory, and the mechanics that make humans so beautifully fascinating.



Hypnosis, Trance & Attention

  • Oakley, D. A., & Halligan, P. W. (2017). Hypnotic suggestions and the human brain: Mechanisms and applications.
    Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 18(2), 102–114.
  • Whalley, M. G., & Brooks, J. C. W. (2009). A critical review of neuroimaging studies investigating the neural basis of hypnosis.
    Contemporary Hypnosis, 26(1), 5–35.

Emotion, Focus & Suggestibility

  • Vuilleumier, P., & Driver, J. (2007). Modulation of visual processing by attention and emotion.
    Neuron, 55(4), 604–617.
  • Raz, A. (2007). Hypnosis and neuroscience: A cross-talk.
    Neuropsychologia, 45(6), 1257–1270.

Identity, DMN & State Changes

  • Brewer, J. A., et al. (2011). Meditation experience and differences in default mode network activity.
    PNAS, 108(50), 20254–20259.
  • Carhart-Harris, R. L., & Friston, K. J. (2019). REBUS theory: Relaxed Beliefs Under Psychedelics.
    Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 107, 85–95.

Memory, Imprinting & Re-consolidation

  • Nader, K., & Hardt, O. (2009). A single standard for memory: The case for re-consolidation.
    Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 10, 224–234.
  • Schacter, D. L. (2012). Constructive memory and the brain.
    Annual Review of Psychology, 63, 1–29.

Childhood Suggestibility

  • Ceci, S. J., & Bruck, M. (1993). Suggestibility of the child witness.
    Psychological Bulletin, 113(3), 403–439.
  • Ghetti, S., & Bunge, S. A. (2012). Neural changes underlying the development of episodic memory.
    Developmental Cognitive Neuroscience, 2(4), 381–395.

Imagination, Embodiment & Trance

  • Jiang, Y., White, E., & Kwon, S. (2025). Functional reorganization during hypnosis and focused imagery.
    Brain Sciences, 15(2), 142.
  • Kosslyn, S. M., et al. (2000). Brain areas activated by imagery: A meta-analysis.
    NeuroImage, 12, 1–11.

Social Influence & Connection

  • Lieberman, M. D. (2013). Social: Why our brains are wired to connect.
    Crown Publishing.
  • Cialdini, R. B. (2007). Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion.
    Harper Business.

Absorption, Autopilot & State Drift

  • Smallwood, J., & Schooler, J. W. (2015). The science of mind wandering.
    Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 16(11), 703–714.
  • Damasio, A. (1999). The Feeling of What Happens.
    Harcourt Brace.

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